The Best Way to Approach a Woman

Gentlemen, do you know the right moves when you spot a woman that you think you would possibly like to make part of your future? The fact is that you must approach, and you must do it fast. The old saying "He who hesitates is lost" is dead on in the land of singles.

Whenever you spot an attractive lady, what exactly is the best strategy? To begin with, let your body do the talking by using your eyes. Look at her and hold your eye contact for a few extra seconds. Be prepared for her to look away. A woman has been trained to lower her eyes when a man looks at her. This does not mean she is not interested. An analysis of flirtation patterns tells us if, after looking away, the woman looks up again within 45 seconds, she welcomes your attention.

So this is the time to start your stopwatch. As she coyly feigns interest in something else in the room, take note of how long it actually takes for her to glance back at you. If it is within 45 seconds, then you are ready to proceed.

Next, you smile at her and give her a little nod. Think of it as making a reservation for a table at an exclusive restaurant. When you have signaled the attention of a woman, you have made your reservation to talk with her. Do not worry or concern yourself about being too forward or moving too fast. Just remember that she will not think anything of you if you do not meet her. And if you do not move fast, every woman will be the one that got away.

Keep in mind that moving fast does not mean sprinting right up to her and jumping her bones. It just means you must quickly make your presence known by signaling your interest.

So when you smile at her, you have to make sure your smile is friendly and respectful, not a leering grin or a salacious smirk. The final step is to move close enough to her to talk.

You are now in position for conversation. What should you first say to her? Do not even think about using one of those corny opening lines that you read about or your buddies told you about. This will counteract everything you have established up to now. Just say something pleasant, courteous, or slightly humorous. Remember to be sincere and thoughtful because you are still a stranger to her. So the first thing you need to do is put her at ease.


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